Lillian Barsoum
Visitation:
Sunday, November 28, 2021
2-4pm & 6-8pm
Location: John Krtil Funeral Home
1297 1st Ave
New York, NY 10021
Funeral Mass:
Monday, November 29, 2021
10am
Location: St. John's the Evangelist Church
348 E55th St
New York, NY 10022
Lillian Barsoum passed away on November 20, 2021, shy of her 96th birthday. She was the beloved wife of Barsoum Elias Barsoum. She was a devoted wife and mother.
Lillian was born in Alexandria, Egypt into an Italian family, and arrived to the United States with her husband and children in 1967. She straddled several worlds which afforded her an enlarged worldview. She is remembered as having a pronounced joie de vivre. She loved to laugh and enjoyed having lively conversations which made it a joy to be in her company. She also had keen insight into human nature.
She is survived by her three children, Marlène, Bruno and Caroline Barsoum, her daughter-in-law, Margaret Barsoum, her granddaughter, Agata Wieczorek and her nephew, Edward Hornig Jr. She shall be sorely missed.
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IN MEMORY Nestor Benjamin Zapata Passed Jan 15, 2026 Born June 28,1932 Resided Nyc, NY Nestor Benjamin Zapata went home to the Risen Jesus on Jan 15, 2026 at age 93. Nestor was born to Nestor Zapata Sandoval and Anita Vinck on June 28, 1932 in Mayaguez, Puerto Rico. As a Child, He excelled in school, theater and sports. With leading roles in plays at George Washington H.S. IN Washington Heights, NYC. He was also an avid baseball and basketball player. He loved playing golf with his friends. He also was an excellent ice skater that few PR's can do. Nestor met his 1st wife, Connie at a church dance. They married two years later and went on to have four children, Nestor, Michael, Laura and Christina. Also many Grandchildren as well Great-Grandchildren He later met his current wife, Grace and married Nov 5, 1999. They loved going to meetings to celebrate the gift of sobriety. As well as helping many people along the journey. They also enjoyed going to Lincoln Center, Radio City and Broadway. Seeing Hamilton twice! They acquired an incredible taste for NYC Cuisine. In addition to being a dedicated father, Nestor also loved the NY Yankees and NY Giants, also staying active in AA & holding various roles at the church. He also will be remembered for umpiring little league on Roosevelt Island. He held an unwavering faith in God, which He shared with those who surrounded him.
Viewing Thursday December 18th, 2025 9:00 A.M. to 9:30 A.M. Funeral Mass Church of St. Monica 413 East 79th Street New York, NY 10075 Thursday December 18th, 2025 10:00 A.M. Private Cremation In Lieu of Flowers Donate to St. Jude https://www.stjude.org/donate/donate-to-st-jude.html

Mary M. Terillo October 6th, 2025 Visitation Thursday, October 9th & Friday, October 10th 3:00pm-7:30pm Mass of Christian Burial Church of Saint John Nepomucene East 66th Street & First Avenue Saturday, October 11th 10:00am Burial Saint Charles Cemetery Farmingdale, NY Saturday, October 11th 12:30pm In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the following organizations in Mary Terillo's name. Maryknoll Fathers and Brothers P.O. Box 302 Maryknoll, NY 10545 (888) 627-9566 and/or Saint Francis Inn 2441 Kensington Ave Philadelphia, PA 19125 (215) 423-5845
Raymond Joseph Glynn, 75, of Manhattan, NY passed away peacefully on August 31, 2025. Born in Queens and raised in Yonkers, Ray was the dear son of the late Robert A. Glynn and Sheila (Flynn) Glynn and the brother of the late Kevin R. Glynn. Ray was an Iona Prep alumni. He went on to earn his Bachelor of Arts from Franklin & Marshall College, his Juris Doctor from the University of Baltimore, and his Masters of Business Administration from Manhattan College. He built a respected career as a Patent and Trademark attorney and is a current member of the New York State Bar. Although what truly defined Ray, was his generosity, humor, and dedication to others. For over 40 years, Ray was a devoted member of St. Bartholomew’s Episcopal Church. It was there that he not only gave back to his community but also formed many lasting and important friendships that meant so much to so many. He was among the first to volunteer when Crossroads Community Services was founded, serving in those early years as a shelter volunteer and delivering food for distribution to soup kitchen guests. Ray also served at St. Bart’s as an usher and was always there to offer a friendly welcome to people at the door. Into retirement, he continued to serve the New York City area with his warmth and compassion for others in need. He was also a proud member of the New York Athletic Club. Ray had a quick wit, a kind heart, and a gift for making people feel welcome. He was deeply devoted to his family and especially cherished being “Uncle Ray” to his nieces, nephew, and great-nieces and nephew. He is survived by his sister-in-law, Regina Glynn, and her children, Cathy Cardew (Greg), Robert Glynn (Danielle), and Laura Cannizzaro (Scott), along with his great-nephew and nieces and his beloved companion, Holly Bellows. He will also be missed by his many cousins and countless friends who loved him dearly. Funeral services will be held on Friday, September 12, at 11:00 a.m. at St. Bartholomew’s Episcopal Church, 325 Park Avenue, New York, NY.
It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of our uncle, John J. Downes, who died peacefully at home in New York City on August 3, 2025 at the age of 91 years old. He was born on August 24, 1933 in Pallaskenry, Co Limerick, Ireland to James Downes and Margaret Downes (nee O’Rourke). John was a loving uncle, brother, and friend. He will be deeply missed by his long-time companion/friend/partner, Zachary Pappas, as well as many nieces and nephews, including more than 15 great nieces and nephews, and 3 great-great nephews. John Downes was predeceased by his siblings, Margaret, Bridget, Thomas, Marie, Kathleen, James, Teresa, and Joseph. A funeral mass (no wake/viewing) will be held at St Monica’s Church (413 East 79th St., NY, NY) on August 7, 2025 at 10am, followed by burial at Gate of Heaven Cemetery (10 W. Stevens Ave, Hawthorne, NY). John J. Downes Visitation: Thursday August 7th, 2025 8:45 A.M. to 9:30 A.M. John Krtil Funeral Home 1297 1st Avenue New York, NY 10021 Funeral Mass: Thursday August 7th, 2025 10:00 A.M St. Monica's Church 413 East 79th Street New York, NY 10075 Burial: Thursday August 7th, 2025 11:45 A.M. Gate of Heaven Cemetery Hawthorne, NY

In Loving Memory of Theresa Reilly Virga January 14, 1930 – May 19, 2025 It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of our beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and aunt, Terry, who departed this life peacefully on May 19, 2025. She was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Sam; her cherished children, Anthony, Arleen, and Rosario; and her dear brothers, Frank, Jack, and George. While her loss leaves a deep void, we take comfort in knowing she is reunited with them in eternal peace. She is survived by her devoted daughter, Theresa, and her husband, Michael Cleary; and her loving son, John, and his wife, Arlene Virga. Her greatest joy came from her family, and she leaves behind a legacy of love through her grandchildren: Theresa Perkin (Tony), Nicole Cleary, AJ Virga (Caroline), Andrew Virga (Rachel), Michael Virga (Ben), Stephen O’Neill (Kate), Daniel O’Neill, Jamie O’Neill (Claire), and Shayna Cole (Mike). She was a proud great-grandmother to Elizabeth, William, Nicolas, Nathan, Henry, Vivian, and Casey. Each of them brought a special light into her life. She is also survived by her sister-in-law, Antoinette, and many beloved nieces and nephews, whose lives she touched with warmth, laughter, and unwavering love. Terry also leaves behind many dear friends and extended family, each of whom held a special place in her heart. Some have preceded her in death, and others remain to cherish her memory. She treasured lifelong bonds, old friends who shared her history, new friends who brought fresh light, and extended family who felt like her own. Their companionship, laughter, and steady presence were a constant source of joy. Her friendships were a beautiful reflection of the warmth, loyalty, and kindness she gave so freely to others. Terry will be remembered for her boundless generosity, kindness, humor, feistiness, and deep devotion to her family. She filled every room with laughter, her kitchen was always open, and her love was a steady source of comfort to all who knew her. She leaves behind a family bound together by her enduring spirit, countless memories, and the values she instilled in each generation. She was, and always will be, the world’s best Grammy. She will be missed dearly, loved always, and remembered forever. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made in memory of Theresa Virga to one of the following organizations that reflect her values and life: • Wounded Warrior Project – www.woundedwarriorproject.org • National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) – www.nami.org • St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital – www.stjude.org
October 1, 1936 – March 17, 2025 It is with deep sorrow that we announce the passing of Anthony R. Marchini [born: October 1, 1936], a beloved son, brother to Rita, cousin to Anthony, friend, neighbor, and colleague, at the age of 88. Tony left us peacefully, surrounded by the love of his cousin and chosen Psycho- Oncology family on Monday, March 17, 2025. A gentle soul with a kind heart, Tony lived a life defined by generosity and unwavering compassion. He was a dedicated Administrative Editor for Dr. Jimmie C. Holland in the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Science at Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center, where he played an instrumental role in supporting Dr. Holland's groundbreaking work including being first Editor to founding Psycho-Oncology Journal, big part in grassroot for the American Psycho-Oncology Society [APOS] & International Psycho-Oncology Society [IPOS]. His professional legacy is marked by his meticulous diligence, his tireless work ethic, and his genuine care for those he worked alongside. Beyond his professional accomplishments, Tony was known for his warmth and selflessness. He was a constant source of kindness and support to those who knew him. Whether as a devoted family member or a trusted friend & colleague, he always made time for others and was ready to lend a helping hand. His calm demeanor and beautiful spirit left a lasting impression on everyone he met. Tony was a treasured member of his church community, a neighbor who could always be relied upon and a cousin whose bond will be cherished for life. He will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him. He leaves behind a legacy of kindness, humility, and dedication, and his memory will continue to inspire those whose lives he touched. Tony is survived by his cousin Anthony Bordi, PO family members and many dear friends who will remember him fondly and forever. A funeral mass service as Tony’s wishes will be conducted on Tuesday, March 25, 2025 at 10am in St. John the Evangelist-Our Lady of Peace Catholic Church located at 348 E 55th St, New York, NY 10022. Followed to interment at Gate of Heaven Cemetery in Hawthorne, NY. In lieu of flowers, we kindly requests donations be made to Friends of Psycho-Oncology Africa [ibelardo31@gmail.com] in honor of Jimmie C. Holland's memory of Anthony R. Marchini. May Tony now Rest in paradise.

Father William Alexander Holt died suddenly in Ireland, one day after concelebrating the wedding of a family member of the late Fr. John McGuire, O.P. He is survived by his sisters, Kathleen McGurk, Michelle Holt Wyatt, and Maureen E. Frain, and his brothers Robert M. Holt, Thomas J. Holt, Michael B. Holt, and many nieces, nephews, and extended family members. Father Holt was born in Jersey City, NJ on December 18, 1941, the oldest of seven children of William Alexander and Grace Marie (née Donohue) Holt. He attended grade school at St. Peter’s and St. Joseph’s schools in Jersey City and first met Dominicans attending Dominican Camp in Staatsburg, New York. In 1959, he graduated from St. Michael’s High School in Jersey City. After a couple of years working in New York City, he entered the novitiate of the Dominican Province of St. Joseph in Somerset, OH as a cooperator brother, and making his first profession on November 27, 1962. During his time as cooperator brother, he had the religious name Bonaventure. He was then assigned to the Dominican House of Studies, where he worked in the laundry until 1964, when he became the procurator’s secretary. In 1966, he joined the province’s mission in Chimbote, Peru, where he ran a retreat house and served as the community’s procurator. In 1968 he returned to the United States to enroll as a student, first at Providence College, and from 1969-71 at St. Stephen’s College in Dover, MA. After returning for a year to the cooperator brothers’ community at the Dominican House of Studies, Brother Bonaventure determined that his vocation was really to the priesthood. He withdrew from the Order and enrolled at the Pope John XXIII Seminary in Weston, MA for the Diocese of Norwich. After four years of study there, he was ordained to the priesthood at St. Patrick’s Cathedral in Norwich, CT, by Most Reverend Daniel P. Reilly, on May 8, 1976. Father Holt served as a priest of Norwich, first as parochial vicar at St. Mary’s Church in New London, CT, from 1976 to 1978 and then at St. Bernard’s Church in Rockville, CT from 1978 to 1982. Desiring to return to the Order, Father Holt was accepted to the novitiate at St. Stephen’s Priory in Dover, MA, and made simple profession on August 15, 1982. He was assigned for parochial ministry to Holy Name Church in Philadelphia from 1982 to 1984, to St. Catherine of Siena Priory in New York City for hospital ministry from 1984-1985, and finally to nearby St. Vincent Ferrer Priory as Assistant Director of Development for the province. There, he made solemn profession on August 15, 1985. In 1986, Father Holt was made director of Dominican Camp, then in operation for seventy-five years, to oversee the final year of its operation. In 1988, he was assigned as parochial vicar to St. Gertrude Priory in Cincinnati, and in 1992 to Sacred Heart Priory in his native Jersey City. He returned to St. Gertrude in 1993, where he was elected prior and appointed pastor in 1997. In 1999, Father Holt was sent to St. Mary Priory in New Haven, CT, to be director of the Shrine of the Infant of Prague. He was subsequently elected prior and appointed pastor there in 2001. In 2008, he was elected prior of St. Vincent Ferrer Priory in New York City, and in 2011 was appointed as pastor at Holy Innocents Church in Pleasantville, NY. He returned to New Haven to assist the ministry of St. Mary Priory in 2015, and finally to St. Vincent Ferrer Priory in 2017 where he undertook the project of, as he said, making his old age pleasing to God. Father Holt had the gift of speaking wisdom entertainingly: “helpful hints from Holt” were a standard feature of his conversations with brothers in formation. He had a habit of engaging people passing by his door; as he said in an interview for America magazine (October 6, 2022), “I stand on the porch and I meet the world. …I want (people) to come into church. …They have to experience silence in church….Silence taught me to listen, because I’m a great talker. I would talk the handle off that door. But silence is a great thing.” Father Holt’s body will be received at the Dominican church of St. Mary in Claddagh, Galway, near where he passed away, on Saturday, September 16, with a requiem Mass celebrated by Rev. Pat Lucey, O.P. After his casket is returned to the United States, his body will be received at the Church of St. Vincent Ferrer at 4:00pm on September 21. The Office of the Dead will be prayed that evening and the following morning. The Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:00am September 22 with Very Rev. Allen Moran, O.P., prior provincial, presiding and Rev. James Quigley, O.P. preaching the homily. Following this funeral Mass, his body will be buried in the Dominican section of All Souls’ Cemetery in Pleasantville, New York.

Vincent Flanagan of New York City, age 69, on September 2, 2023. Vincent was the former Circuit Executive of the United States Court of Appeals for the First Circuit in Boston, MA from 1988-2001 serving under Chief Judges Levin Campbell, Stephen Breyer & Juan R. Torruella. He led the First Circuit’s multiple administrative processes underlying construction of the John Moakley U.S Courthouse in Boston. His prior executive positions in the United States Second Circuit Court of Appeals in New York City were as Chief Deputy Clerk (1986-1988) and Assistant Circuit Executive (1980-1986). Following the First Circuit’s Executive position, he served as CEO of the Homeless Empowerment Project in Cambridge MA for 3 years, directing publication and distribution of its newspaper, Spare Change News. He graduated Fordham College in 1976 and Fordham University Law School in 1979. Survivors include his beloved wife Bernadette and sister Jane.
